When a child receives an autism diagnosis, families are often quickly directed toward ABA therapy — but choosing a provider is a significant decision that deserves careful thought. Here are five questions every family should ask.
1. What does a typical session look like?
Ask for a detailed description of what your child will be doing during therapy. Quality ABA should be engaging, individualized, and focused on meaningful skills — not just rote repetition.
2. How will you measure progress?
ABA stands for Applied Behavior Analysis — data collection is central. Ask how progress is tracked, how often it's reviewed, and how you'll be kept informed.
3. How will you involve us as parents?
Parent training is a core component of effective ABA. If a provider doesn't have a clear plan for involving you, that's a red flag.
4. What is your staff's training and supervision structure?
Ask about BCBA supervision ratios and how line therapists (RBTs) are trained and monitored. Your child deserves consistent, quality oversight.
5. How do you handle situations where a child is upset or refuses to participate?
Answers to this question reveal a provider's values. Modern, trauma-informed ABA prioritizes child assent and avoids aversive procedures. Listen carefully.